updates the coc

CODE_OF_CONDUCT.md

@@ -8,8 +8,17 @@ Our users, contributors, and collaborators are expected to treat each other with
 
 * The use of sexualized language or imagery
 * Unwelcome advances, sexual or otherwise
+* Deliberate intimidation, stalking, or following
 * Insults or derogatory comments, or personal or political attacks
 * Publishing others’ private information without explicit permission
+* Sustained disruption of talks or other events
 * Other conduct which could reasonably be considered inappropriate in a professional setting
+* Advocating for, or encouraging, any of the above behaviour
 
-If someone is violating this Code of Conduct you may email hello@qmk.fm to bring your concern to the Members. All complaints will be reviewed and investigated and will result in a response that is deemed necessary and appropriate to the circumstances. The project team is obligated to maintain confidentiality with regard to the reporter of an incident. 
+# Reporting
+
+If someone is violating this Code of Conduct, please email hello@qmk.fm or reach out to one of the Collaborators to bring it to our attention. All complaints will be reviewed and investigated.
+
+QMK will seek to use the least punitive means available to resolve an issue. If the circumstances require asking an offender to leave, we will do that.
+
+Reports will be taken and kept in strict confidence. You will not be required to confront an offender directly.